Best Friends Who are on The Other-Side

Best Friends Who are on The Other-Side

Best friends who are on the other side.  They are the Heavenly Travelers, the ones who know us best.  When we lose a good friend, it feels so different from all of the other losses we suffer.  I feel the best way to write this for you, is through the truth of My Medium Life.  This is, after all, my story....

My Michelle. My Girl Bestie, My Friend...

She left the physical realm at the young age of 18.  I was a year older than she, and I would have to say, she is my best girlfriend.  I met her at the young age of 14 and she lived 2 doors down from me with her grandma and grandpa.  Her parents sent her to live with them because, well, there is no better way to put this than the fact that she was a rebellious teenager and her parents really did not know what else to do with her.  Although, I would have to say upon contemplation sending her to her elderly grandparents may not have been the best idea after all.  Her grandfather was quite ill and it was all her grandmother could do to take care of him, let alone a young troublemaking teenage girl.  I say this all in love, because I do love Michelle.  She has taught me an awful lot throughout my life, because for most of my life she has been a Heavenly Traveler, one who has been with me on my journey and has helped me in so many ways from the other-side.  I know this, because, well, I am a medium, and I have always seen and talked to the dead.  In so many ways, my life and Michelle's did parallel, because by the time I was 16 I was living with my grandma and grandpa too.  Reasons to be explained in another writing.  There is so much more to this story, and I am writing it out in my soon to be published book My Medium Life, so I am apologizing for over summarizing this story.

There is an interesting connection that I have with Michelle, and it is through a hole in my left ear.  The second hole to be exact.  We did a lot of fun things together, Michelle and I, but I would have to say, more often than not, we were doing things quite adventurous, in a word, rebellious, as the adults at the time would say.  I digress.. back to the point.. rather, the point of a needle.  I am going to date myself right now and tell you that I am an 80's girl.  I was a young teen when Madonna hit the scene.  One of the trends that I really fell in love with was the two earrings on the left ear.  Now, my mom was okay with my ears pierced-- exactly the way she had pieced them for me when I was a young girl, but she was not in favor of any more holes in my ear lobes.  Needless to say, Michelle was on my side, and was in favor of this new fashion trend and decided she would be the one to help me achieve this desire.  One day while my mom was at work we decided it was the perfect time to poke a new hole in my earlobe.  Although, I was scared to death, well, rather, I was scared of the needle (totally a real thing with me), I braved the puncture.  We used a corsage needle, the kind with the pearl on the end of it.  Of course, we did hold the ice on my earlobe in an attempt to numb it from the pain of the needle... I think the ice hurt worse though.  The project of the second hole in my earlobe was a success!  I was fortunate because my hair was long, and I was careful to hide the piercing using my hair when I was around my mom.  Yes, I know, I am a poor example for the young ones, but this is the truth of my life.

I am going to fast forward years now and talk to you a little bit about  the stud earring that I have in my left ear that Michelle pierced for me all those years ago, it has acted as a grounding force for me.  (There is a whole story and journey behind this.. but as I said earlier, it will be told in greater depth in my book.) 

My life as a medium, as a sensitive, as an empath-- it has not been easy.  Being a sensitive brings with it many emotions, and feelings that is connected to so many people and experiences that I found myself in a panic for so many years.  It was just so hard to live life without feeling totally off balance all of the time.  Now, I am going back to the part where I am a medium.. and you actually may be wondering if with these gifts of mine, if I actually talk to my people who are on the other-side, and the answer is a yes, I really do.  In fact, they are my guides, they are the ones I go to first for help.. my people.  Through this communication I have with Michelle she talked to me about the fact that whenever I got nervous I would touch the earring on my ear, and that it would ground me, comfort me, and help me to find my center again.  Of course, that was an aha sort of moment when she brought that to my attention because, indeed, whenever I touched the earring, I would think of her and then immediately I would see and talk to her.  And since she is a heavenly connection I would feel a certain peace.  I still do it to this day, and most of the time, I am not even aware of it until after I have touched the earring.  She is there chit chatting, talking to me and offering guidance and comfort from the other-side.  If you have watched any of my episodes of Medium in the Raw that airs on CW17 in Jacksonville, Florida (shameless plug) you may notice, that many times I am touching that earring....

The point of this writing, indeed all of my writings, is to help to bring you to the awareness that this communication does exist between the earth realm and the heavenly realm.  And, our loved ones who are on the other-side, they will use tools, items, experiences, memories that are connected to their physical lives to communicate with us.  That is the spiritual breadcrumb trail.  

Michelle, she is still my best girlfriend, and she has not missed any the experiences of my life, indeed, she has been so much a part of my life.  I have a developed relationship with her, and we have grown together in so many ways.  You have to know that her job has not been easy working to guide me from the other-side.  I do often wonder what her physical life would have been like, I do feel the grief and I miss that fact that she never bore any physical children.  So, yes, there is a grief, even as a medium, there is grief.  But, there is also solace in knowing that she is here for me, and she is just a simple request away.  My Michelle. My Girl Bestie, My Friend......

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Pamela Theresa
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